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Sunday, November 28, 2010

Reviewing: Do Hard Things: A Teenage Rebellion Against Low Expectations

I read a book recently that truly brought my thoughts into perspective.  It's called "Do Hard Things: A Teenage Rebellion Against Low Expectations" by Alex and Brett Harris.  If you haven't read this book, I recommend it, whether you're ten, fifteen, or forty-five.  It's fantastic and it smacked me in the face (in a godly way), many times.  If the title alone isn't enough to sell you do.jpgon this book, does it help that Chuck Norris wrote the foreword?  Yeah, I thought so.

Summary:
The title of this book is pretty self-explanatory.  It's nonfiction.  The focused audience is teenagers, but the book could easily inspire people of any age.  The back of the book says, "Most people don't expect you to understand what we're going to tell you in this book.  And even if you understand, they don't expect you to care.  And even if you care, they don't expect you to do anything about it.  And even if you do something about it, they don't expect it to last.  We do."  "Do Hard Things" is basically a book that challenges young Christians to step outside our comfort zones and do amazing things for Christ.

What I Liked:
"Do Hard Things" was very straightforward and simply written, but it wasn't "dumbed down," as they talk about in the book.  In other words, while a young teenager or pre-teen could easily sit down and read this book without having to drag along a dictionary, the book is still challenging.  It was even difficult for me to read, a "model" teenager who many adults brag about because I haven't done drugs and alcohol, like many others my age.  "Do Hard Things" is truly the kind of book that "stabs you in the face," just like what that Superchick song talks about.  I felt so inspired and challenged after reading "Do Hard Things," and I know you will be too.

What I Didn't Like:
At times, I thought Alex and Brett Harris could use fewer examples and delve deeper into God's Word and their own writing, but this is only a very small critique, and while there are many teenage examples, many of them inspired me.

I Recommend This For:
Everyone.  Seriously.  Randy Alcorn said, "[This] will prove to be one of the most life-changing and culture-changing books of this generation.  I'd love for every teenager to read this book, but I'm just as eager for every parent, church leader, and educator to read it."  Wow.  That's all I can say.  I needed a boost during my stressful senior year of high school, and this book was just what I needed.

Thursday, November 25, 2010

Just Thankful.

Happy Thanksgiving.  I feel... thankful today.  More so, perhaps, than I have in previous years.  Notice the giant image to your left.  Read every word.  It touched me.
Thankful.jpg
As a senior in high school this year, my life has come to a turning point.  I'm about to leave home in a few months and embark on a journey of my own.  My decisions from this point forward will make a huge, huge difference in my life.  When I was younger, if I messed up, it was okay.  My parents took care of everything.  I'll be on my own now, and the decisions I'll be making will be life decisions and not only little ones.

I'm so blessed to have what I have.  I've been given so many important things in my life, I could not even list them all if I tried.  I have...

A family that loves and supports me.  Not even all of my friends have parents who actually care where they are right now or what they're doing for Thanksgiving.  My parents love me and let me know of their affections for me every single day.  They support me in the decisions I make.  They're going to miss me when I leave home.  They'll make the effort to see me as often as they can.  My little brother is adorable, not annoying.  My little sister has a huge heart.  I have grandparents and aunts and uncles and cousins who actually strive to spend time together.  No one could have a better family than me.

An education.  I'm graduating from a private school.  I'll be going to a great university.  I'm going to become whatever I want to be in life.  I've been given so many opportunities.

Three meals a day, plus snacks.  Seriously, I get all the food I need and more.  When my stomach starts to grumble in between lunch and dinner, I can easily walk downstairs, open the pantry, and find myself one of thirty different snacks.  How many people in the world have that opportunity?

Clothes.  I have a lot of clothes.  I have a lot of shoes.  My parents have allowed me to lead an amazing, blessed lifestyle that not many people can have.  I am so grateful for the fact that I can feel cool in the summer and warm in the winter and feel confident in myself and my style.

Friends.  I have the best friends in the world.  I'm not just saying that.  I truly do.  Don't believe me?  Ask them.  I've never seen any group of high school friends so devoted to each other, so loyal, so accountable, so devoted to growing in Christ, and so drama free.  We've made lifelong relationships.

My health.  I am generally a very healthy person.  I don't have disease or disability.  I am able to run and dance and spin in circles until I fall over in the grass.  God has given me my health and I am so grateful for that.  God has also given my family and friends their health as well, which is just as important to me.

A roof over my head.  I have never been homeless.  I have always had a place to live and feel warm and protected.  I even have my own room where I can express myself and gain my own independence.  I have a comfortable, warm bed to sleep in.  I have air condition for the summer and a heater for the winter.  I have closets and a bathroom and a kitchen downstairs.  I have so much.

I am so thankful for everything that God has blessed me with during my short lifetime.  I can't even express how grateful I truly feel.  What amazes me is how little of this I've deserved.

Thank you, Jesus.  So much.  I owe it all to You.

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What are YOU grateful for?

Saturday, November 20, 2010

You

This is a poem I wrote for the girl I sponsor through Christian Relief Fund, Lavin.


YOU

Of all the people in this big, crazy world,
Of all the schools and houses and towns,
There are so many children: boys and girls,
But it was YOU who I finally found.

It was YOU who God laid on my heart.
It was YOUR friendship I chose to pursue.
YOUR smile, YOUR laugh, the way YOU can sing.
I am so glad that God gave me YOU!


7-5-10

Friday, November 19, 2010

I Need You Here

I Need You Here

Touch my heart when I'm broken.
Touch my heart when I'm whole.
Touch my heart when I'm healing.
I need You here. I need You here.

Break my heart when I'm selfish.
Break my heart when I'm blind.
Break my heart when I'm weary.
I need You here. I need You here.

Know my heart when I'm empty.
Know my heart when I've run.
Know my heart when I'm helpless.
I need You here. I need You here.

Hold my heart when I'm falling.
Hold my heart when I'm tired.
Hold my heart when I'm searching.
I need You here. I need You here.

10-3-10

Saturday, November 13, 2010

I have mise you for a long time.

Lavin is a beautiful little girl, as you can see in the available pictures of her on this page.  She's thirteen now.  I first began to sponsor her when she was ten years old.  Lavin lives in a small shack with her mom and uncle, who she calls her step-dad.  Lavin's dad died some years back.  Lavin DSC04960-1.JPGabsolutely adores singing and dancing.  She's very creative and intelligent.  Lavin is meek and quiet, but when she comes out of her shell, nothing can stand in her way.  She's in the fourth grade.

During the summer of 2009, I was given the opportunity to travel to Kisumu, Kenya and meet Lavin in person.  In fact, I was able to spend an entire week at her school.  Lavin and I became friends over that week.  I was very sad to leave her, and even a year and a half later, I still think about Lavin every day and write her frequent letters.

When in Africa, I was given the opportunity to see just how much I blessed Lavin's life through my sponsorship.  I first began to sponsor Lavin when I was fifteen years old and a freshman in high school.  I sacrificed money that came out of my allowance, but I felt that it was worth it.  After visiting Kenya, Africa, I saw how "worth it" my small sacrifice truly was.

After I sponsored Lavin, she was allowed to attend school and receive a real education.  My sponsorship will last through vocational school or a university, so Lavin can become whoever she wants to be.  Lavin is given clothes, a school uniform, and good school shoes.  Lavin is taught spiritually.  She has asked Jesus into her heart.  She has memorized Bible verses for school.  She attends church each Sunday.  She receives three meals a day, which is much more than she would have gotten without a sponsor.  If she becomes sick, Lavin is given treatment at an on-campus clinic.  Lavin receives letters from someone who lives across the world -me- and knows now that she is loved and cherished.

I was blessed after meeting Lavin as well.  Her obvious joy that came from the Lord, her maturity, and her sweet, crooked smile changed the way I viewed my own life.  You can read my journal from when I spent two weeks in Africa here, on my website.

I very recently received a card in the mail from Lavin. I love it.  My little girl is so creative and talented.  I loved to see her drawing of a mud hut, possibly based off of the one in which she lives.  The letter is precious.  I'll go ahead and let you read Lavin Letterwhat it says.

Dear Emily,
Dear Emily I hope that you are fine too.  I have mise you for a long time.  I am writeing this latter for reminding you that I mise you and your famliy too.  I ama working hard in school and at home.  I am helping my parents.  Emily, I want you to come back again with your familiy your sister Am and your brother luke and you also.

Romans 16:19
I like this memori vac [memory verse].
Say that for your obedience has become known to all.  There I am glad on your behalf, but I want you to be wise in what is good, and simple concerning evil.

Philippians 2:11
And that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord to the grolry of God and the Father.

If you don't think that's adorable, check out some of Lavin's drawings in the photo above with your own eyes.  So sweet.

I try to write Lavin letters as often as I can because I was able to see how much the letters actually meant to the sponsored children at Lavin's school.  When a child received a letter, she was literally mobbed by other students, who examined every word, photograph, and sticker sheet.  Children keep letters from their sponsor forever.  Most could quote facts about their sponsors and their sponsors' families... just from the letters.  Letters from people in America who care mean so much to these kids.  If you sponsor a child, please write him or her a letter at least twice a year.  It's so important to them.  I can't stress that enough.

I used to wonder as a sponsor if my money actually went anywhere or helped anyone, or if it merely lined the pockets of P1000355.JPGpompous, greedy executives.  I don't know about other humanitarian organizations, but I do know that Christian Relief Fund strives to truly help as many children as they possibly can.  I was able to witness multiple lives that were changed because of the ministry of CRF.  Without CRF, many children would be dead right now from starvation and disease, possibly even including Lavin.

There were children dressed in ragged clothing standing at the gates of the school, waiting for scraps of food to be given to them for a meal.  They were the unsponsored children.  I turned to look at the sponsored children with their uniforms and big smiles, laughing, singing, and playing lighthearted games before returning to class.  What a difference my sponsorship made on Lavin's life.

If you do not sponsor a child, I strongly recommend you to consider the idea.  When you sponsor a child through Christian Relief Fund, you will receive progress reports, school report cards, personal letters and drawings from your child, and yearly photo updates.  You will be changing a child's life forever, physically, mentally, and spiritually.  When you receive letters and cards from your special child, you will feel touched and excited, eager to see how you have blessed someone's life.

There are so many children waiting for a sponsor right now, eager to have their lives changed.  You could be the one to change a life.  Perhaps God has that purpose for you.  Go to the Christian Relief Fund website here and click on the link that says DSC04602-1.JPG"Sponsor a Child."  You can also sponsor a family or school.  If you simply do not have the funds to monthly sponsor a child, you can give a seasonal gift by clicking on this link.  There are all sorts of ways that you can give to change a family's life, such as a chicken, a mosquito net, a home in Haiti, and so much more.

I wish I could return to Kenya, just like Lavin asked in her sweet letter.  I wish I could with all of my heart.  When I find the funds to allow me to return to Kisumu and embrace my little girl again, I will speak with her for ages, teach her brand new songs for Jesus, talk to her about her future, and encourage her as much as I possibly can.

For a little girl who lives halfway around the world, for a little girl with whom I've only spent a week of my life, I sure love Lavin.  And if she is this precious to me, I can't even imagine how much Jesus Christ cherishes her and wishes her -and every single other child who lives in a third world country- the best life imaginable.

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Special People

A poem I originally wrote for my friend Ali... but also for every girl out there who is looking for a guy who is willing to save himself for his future wife.  I hope you like it too.

Special People

I have always been told I am special,
Made to be cherished and all.
Then I see the boys around me,
And I watch them stumble and fall.

Is there any guy who is special,
Who is saving himself for "the one"?
Sometimes my search can be tiring,
Even though it has only begun.

When I become tired of waiting,
I'll remember who I've chosen to be.
I'm waiting for a purpose and reason,
For the guy who is waiting for me.

I wish I could see what God sees.
Maybe one day I will fall in love.
But for now, here I am waiting,
So I'll make His love be enough.

When it seems like I'm the only one
Who is saving myself in this world,
I'm reminded that I am special, and
Special guys want special girls.

October 3, 2010

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Reviewing: Immanuel's Veins by Ted Dekker

Immanuel's Veins by Ted Dekker is a love story, without a doubt.  Taking place in a world of ball rooms and armor, vampires and heroes, the novel weaves together a tale of rescue and romance.  The novel is one of the most sexually explicit Christian love stories I've ever read.  In fact, it was banned from Holland's Christian book stores for being too sensual.  Whether Immanuel.jpgImmanuel's Veins is appropriate or too promiscuous, I'll let you decide for yourself.

Summary-
Toma and his close friend, Alec, are warriors dedicated to service by their empress, Catherine the Great.  Catherine has sent them on an assignment to protect a wealthy countess and her two wild and promiscuous twin daughters, Lucine and Natasha.  Toma is instantly attracted to the more conservative of the twins, Lucine.  A group of strange Russians keep showing up at the castle, displaying bizarre abilities and an odd allure about them.  When Lucine is swept away into a darkness even she can't prevent, Toma is faced with a decision: stand his ground as a serviceman of Catherine the Great or fall into the dangerous folds of true love.

What I Liked-
I liked how Immanuel's Veins turned down the idea of Christianity being a pretty white church with stained glass windows.  When Toma entered a church in a panic, the priest turned to him and snapped something similar to, "Leave before you mess up the carpet with your muddy boots!"

What I Didn't Like-
1.) In my opinion, Immanuel's Veins was too sensual.  While one could argue that it goes into similar detail to that of Song of Solomon in the Bible, the characters are unmarried, and most are lusting rather than loving.  Immanuel's Veins treads the line between accepting the idea of sex to flaunting the lust of unmarried couples.

2.) The novel is about vampires, much to my disappointment.  In a way, I feel like Dekker conformed into the popular culture's demands by needlessly adding vampires into his story.  At times, I felt the vampire aspect made Immanuel's Veins borderline cliche and even uninteresting to me.

3.) There was little character development.  The story introduced Toma without any kind of background.  We never learned about his history, about his family, about his likes and dislikes, about his relationship with Alec, about his personality... we only learned that he was an experienced warrior who was devoted to the empress.  There was also no basis into why Toma fell in love with Lucine.  They knew each other for a few days and the reader was given even fewer conversations between them, and Toma was smitten.  It seems like Lucine's beauty was a huge influence in Toma's infatuation, which would make his love closer to "lust".  The villains actually had more character development than the protagonist of the novel.  At times, Toma was too reminiscent of Thomas Hunter from the Circle Trilogy, to the point where he actually seemed to be him in another story setting... similar name, description, etc.

4.) The plot seems rather thin for a Dekker novel.  Toma fell deeply in love with Lucine in a matter of days.  The reader was never given a chance to fall in love with the characters or witness a true relationship between them.  Immanuel's Veins also touches on pieces of Dekker's other novels, mentioning things such as Alucard and the Shataiki.  If a reader isn't already an avid fan of Dekker's work, he or she may become easily confused.  The plot moved too quickly and the ending also didn't seem resolute and impacting enough to my Dekker-novel-obsessed eyes.

5.) Most importantly, I miss the jaw-dropping sense of God's love and adoration for His children in this novel.  The idea of Toma's conversion seemed more like a cliche, typical Dekker tool to move the story along, rather than a tale of true romance between God and man.  Toma never truly seemed to meet God except in one short instance that did not linger long or in detail.  I feel like Immanuel's Veins was more focused on the romantic relationship between Lucine and Toma rather than on expressing the true impact that Christ's love could have had on Toma's life.

I Recommend This Book For-
I certainly would not recommend anyone under the age of sixteen to read Immanuel's Veins.  Anyone older than that should spend time in prayer, read my review and/or others, and decide for themselves.  The sensuality, violence, and blood-drinking play large roles in Immanuel's Veins and should be considered before read.

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I am one of Ted Dekker's biggest fans.  I've devoured every single book he's ever released to the public, and advertised them eagerly to my friends and family.  However, for the first time, I have been sorely disappointed with Dekker's work.  Immanuel's Veins seemed more like a pop culture fad rather than a brilliantly-written Dekker novel.  It's missing a decent plot, realistic characters, any kind of background, originality, and most of all... a true Christian sense to the story.

I miss the tingly feeling I always get from reading a Dekker novel.  I miss the revelation and new perspective into my relationship with God that Dekker novels usually share.

Yes, sadly, Immanuel's Veins fell short of the Dekker standard by a long shot in my eyes.  Hopefully this was one small fluke and his next novel will be a million times better.

Ted Dekker, please drop the vampire fad and move on to real literature.