Saturday, November 19, 2011

5 Ways to Win My Heart

Day 5: Five ways to win your heart.

These things aren't in any particular order other than number one, which is in fact my number one.
Honestly, I felt a little weird posting this because I'm afraid that guys who know me personally are going to read this and be paranoid now.  However, while these may all be things I find attractive in guys, just because a guy has this quality, it doesn't mean I am automatically crushing on him.  But these are all things that I'm sure will help to win my heart one day, if other things work out as well. :)

Having an obvious love for the Lord.  I love to meet guys who genuinely love the Lord with everything in them.  The guy I end up dating (or even marrying) needs to be in love with Christ more than with anything else in the world.  I love to see guys stand up for their faith and talk about the Lord.

Making me feel safe.  I tend to worry a lot, even though I try not to, so when a guy can make me feel safe and protected, I feel automatically so much more comfortable around him.

Loving music.  I love music.  I love talking about music and being shown new music.

Having a conversation.  I love it when a guy will sit down and have a sincere conversation with me.  Since my love language is quality time (and yes, I know I mentioned this yesterday), just talking sometimes can really win my heart.

Being respectful of my friends (and his mama!).  A couple of years ago, a guy reallllly liked me.  At first, I thought he was very sweet... and then two qualities about him turned me off entirely.  He wasn't very nice to my best friend.  He didn't like to hang around her and he often subtly insulted her to her face... for no reason at all.  And then twice I heard him talking on the phone to his mom, and he disrespected her with every word that came out of his mouth, often openly defying what she was asking him to do.  Although this guy was incredibly sweet and respectful to me and my mom, I could never stand him because of the way he treated my best friend and his mom.  Respect is so, so important to me... and not only when it's directed towards me.

So yeah, this is my list of five ways to win my heart.  It only took me about five minutes to write.  :)
These qualities are so important to me and they're definitely things I look for in a guy.

What are five ways to win your heart?

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